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Sometimes all you have to do is show up. Put on your big girl panties (or your big boy underoos). Kind of like me and how I got to conference with only my good looks (not really, but let me dream, okay?). Going to the conference this year was, in my mind, a beginning. Or at least, a beginning again. The theme was just what I needed to hear: Write Here. Write Now. Make it Happen!
See, this past year we
lost our home in the Black Forest Fire and ever since that happened my personal
writing goals have been ignored, shoved back beneath the huge list of to-dos,
survival tasks and “this is more importants". Do you have something like that? Something that makes writing feel like it’s near impossible? Maybe you’ve had health issues this
past year, tragedies you’ve had to face, losses. Or maybe you just had other things that felt more pressing,
eminent. Whatever your situation,
I believe strongly that if you want to write, you have to fight for it. You have to allow your mind to forget
for a minute all that is bothering you, stressing you or overwhelming you and
just write. This is a battle. You have to fight!
At the conference I
met so many interesting people and was inspired by the fact that no two stories
were the same, despite the idea some people put across that there is no original
story. And after talking with so
many I realized, also, that every one of us has a challenge we have to overcome
in order to write. It’s never just
easy and natural. But doesn’t any
good thing, any lasting thing, require effort, vision, determination and hard
work? I was reminded that I need
to quit making excuses and start working toward my goals again.
But sometimes there’s something that
has to happen first; you have to
get there. I’m finding that when I
show up, things happen. And when I
show up regularly, magical things occur. Going to the conference was my symbolic kick in my own rear. It was my way of putting a stake in the
earth and yelling, “I’m back and I have things to say and life isn’t going to
keep me from doing what I love!” Have you taken a stand? Have you yelled at your demons and told them who’s in charge? Well, if not, and even if you missed
the conference, you still can. What’s stopping you? Is
your dream to write something that will move, change, inspire or challenge
people? Well, you have to show
up.
Find a day, pick a time and set a
regular date with yourself to write. Even if it’s just one day, one hour a week, you’re taking that step and
you’ll start building momentum. Take
it from me, a homeschooling mother of five who works from home for an online
school and is a freelance writer for two different publishing companies. If I can do it, so can you. And I wrote my first 400-page novel by
doing just that, writing one day a
week for one hour. Just put it on
your calendar. Don’t plan other things during that time. Consider it an ongoing appointment and
then just write. At first it might
seem like you don’t have a creative thought in your brain. Don’t worry. You do, you just are out of shape (not your butt, your brain) and you need to get into
the groove. The following week
will be easier and the one after that even more natural and before you know it, you’ll be meeting goals, marking milestones and then you’ll find yourself being
consistent and productive. Imagine
it!
So do what you have to
do, fight for those few writing minutes and start putting pencil to paper
now. No one else is going to tell
your story and no one else will tell it quite like you will. So make it happen. Write here. Write now.
About the Author: Holly De Herrera is a homeschooling mother of five, married
to her best friend and known by her family as one who laughs a lot. Holly loves writing about settings
around the world, her very favorite being Turkey where she lived for five years
as a child. Currently she writes
for Cook Communications and Good Catch Publishing and in her personal time is
putting the final touches on a middle grade mystery entitled The Root Cellar
Mystery.
