See, I can
complain. Give me perfection, and I will
find the blemish. Give me plain, old
vanilla life, and I will despair.
And yet,
more and more, I’m finding satisfaction in normal, everyday life and normal,
everyday writing. No, really. I’m tired of complaining. I’ve done enough. I’m going to practice gratitude and
satisfaction. Why not? It’s far more pleasant.
Writing
and finishing books is deeply satisfying, and yeah, chances are I won’t ever be
as popular as One Direction, the popular band.
While I probably won’t ever be a teen sensation, that doesn’t make what
I do less satisfying.
But I love
the idea of being a teen sensation. Have
you heard of Aaron Michael Ritchey? Of
course, he’s a teen sensation! Like
Stephenie Meyer.
The only
difference between me and Stephenie Meyer is scale. We both write. We both finish books. I just got published with a small press. She gets published with the big boys. She’s wildly popular and I write in
obscurity. But the act of writing is the
same for both of us.
And in
some ways, the more obscure I am, the more freedom I have. When I was unpublished, I could write
whatever I wanted and I wasn’t saddled with the marketing and work of
selling. Now, since I’m with a small
press, I don’t have the pressures that Stephenie Meyer has. Can you imagine trying to follow-up Twilight? Can you imagine continuing to write when huge
sections of the population think you are a crap?
I don’t
have all that. I write my books. I am satisfied, and yet, I yearn for more
because I’m human and humans love to yearn.
Yearn and burn, baby.
But the
secret to this whole thing? Love the day
you are in. Love the book you are
writing. Find satisfaction in the little
stuff. Because in the end, it will all
be over soon enough. For me. For Stephenie Meyer. For you.
Why
complain on this short trip to the grave?
Might as well be content on the trip.
About the
Writer: YA
Paranormal author Aaron Michael Ritchey has penned a dozen manuscripts in his
20 years as a writer. When he isn’t slapping around his muse, Aaron
cycles to look fabulous, works in medical technologies, and keeps his family in
silks and furs. His first novel, The Never Prayer, hit
the streets on
March 29, 2012.
I hate complaining. I have a boss who complains CONSTANTLY. I do complain sometimes, but I try to format my "gripes" in a manner that encourages personal growth. :) Hopefully I'll get through my low mood soon so that I can move forward with my customary high spirits :D
ReplyDeleteYearn and burn...Love that quote. And isn't it true? Great post, Aaron. Can you keep the poor writerly friends in silks and furs, too though please?
ReplyDeleteThis is an excellent post, Aaron. I tend to feel intimidated by even the thought of publication involving a multiple book contract leading to pressure and deadlines and stress. One book at a time for a smaller publisher can be very rewarding.
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